First nothing in the question mentions GOD ... so let's leave that alone ....

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as for the broad question ... it would all depend on what the situation is .... I mean my kids hate being forced to do somethings but then again they being minors have no choice in the matter ....
I am forced to have to pay insurance to drive my vehicle .... I would rather keep that money and if I were in an accident use it myself to fix my vehicle ....
I guess it would have to be a more definitive question to decide on ....