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Originally Posted by Marky_D_Sahdd
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OK, relly tired and probably feverish today, so maybe I'm not understanding things so well. Forgive me in advance if I mis-step here.
You're angry with me because I talked to you? You're angry that, when I could have chosen to go to bed, or spend time with my girl, or just relaxed and went Rooing, I talked to you instead?
You're angry that your friendship obviously means that much to me?
Miss the point, much?
THAT is completely unfair.
Darn it all, folks, I didn't have to do a thing. I could understand you being upset if I hadn't, even though I had a LOT of reasons not to. But to be angry because, within all of those choices, I chose to spend some time with you?? I just don't get it.
Apparently, nothing I do, my time, my life, means anything to you. None of it is enough.
Sorry, Kenya, but that strikes me as just a bit selfish.
But you are not the only one, or I never would have put this up. There are others who feel that Sweetpea and I owe them a block of time every day, or we are not friends. On of the reasons for this thread was that it gave us a place to communicate with a lot of people in just a bit of time, a win-win situation for anyone who wants the latest details, and we get time to do stuff to write about. And if anybody comes to us with a problem or a bad day even, I have never known myself or Debbie to be unavailable, and I know quite a few Roo members who have done the same for us.
Dunno what to say here, Angel.
You're angry if I don't talk to you. You're angry if I do.
Withouth getting all Kintergarden Playground, here, I think YOU are the one being unfair.
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Marky you misunderstood what I meant as well.. you were saying that the pea felt your friends were taking advantage of your time, and the way you worded that hurt, because I felt it was directed at me. Like it was all my fault that you were tired that one night that you stayed and talked to me because I was having a hard time. Marky I don't expect anything from you, I don't even expect you to be there all the time, just as I don't expect any of my friends to be there all the time.
But why what you said upset me is because how was I taking advantage? you could have left at any time, but it was YOUR choice, therefore not just my fault that you stayed up. You know that's what friends do for each other.. heck I ditch Bergy all the time for my friends because they need me. Not saying you have to be the same, because I realize that most people forget their friends when they start a new relationship, and some don't even come back to them afterwards.
I never said I was anger at you at all. I'm upset that you were guilt tripping me that night yes. Why would I be upset that you were talking to me? I was just saying you chose to do it, I shouldn't have to feel like I made you do it, which is what you saying made me feel like.
Marky I don't understand why or where you got all these things you are saying? Maybe it was your cold.. because none of it makes any sense to me. I do care about YOU and I do care about what you are going through and all that.. but why is it when I went to visit Bergy in california and I was only there for 2 weeks, I still made time for my friends.. I called friends.. I used the internet.. not as much of course but I still did it.
Also in response to something the pea said if you guys want to 'leave" the roo for awhile, you don't need to be here saying why can't you do it. It's up to you guys to do it, you both have the power to just shut off the computer for a couple days!
Let me make it a point again Marky, I'm not anger about you talking to me, i dont' know where you got that! God I don't know why but you both took everything I said completely wrong and twisted it around. I don't know how you guys did it.. but arg.. I don't even know what to say.. guess it's time to go reply to the pea's PM now.. but everything I've said here and will say in the PM will be taken the wrong way yet again I'm sure..