new ideas for my love life

[steffie jo]

can everyone help me? I'm a mom ans wife and i need some new ideas for the hubby and i... in the bedroom.... Sex is great, really great but i'd like to spice it up. I'm kinda shy and don't know where to start. I don't want to fall into the same humdrum sex life where it seems like a rooteen...(hahaha) alittle roo in there. Anyways, i'm open for any fun ideas.... and where else to find them but here in the rooooooo

[WhammaJamma]

Variety is the spice of life. Anywhere, anyhow, seize the moment and each other.

[WhammaJamma]

Try different places, candlelight, cool whip, role play, costumes, chocolate, accessories, porn movies, read sexual stuff to each other, lotions, massages, no limit to the imagination

[steffie jo]

Originally Posted by WhammaJamma

Try different places, candlelight, cool whip, role play, costumes, chocolate, accessories, porn movies, read sexual stuff to each other, lotions, massages, no limit to the imagination

i thought i'd get more ideas in here, your ideas sound wonderful, i want to thank you...i'm going to them all.....i hope i didn't offend anyone by asking....

[TriniGyal_1986]

You didn't offend anyone by asking,steffie jo. This is the Roo.Remember? Hope it works out with the hubby.

[shock-n-awe]

Stef-

Color me not offended.

As a guy, I'd say that when things get a bit stale in the BR, try things that bring you closer. For example, I find that giving foot rubs or back rubs (especially with lotion or oil) gets things rolling quite well. And, actually planning on getting intimate beforehand builds the anticipation. Like, pick a day or night about a week out, and talk about it and what's going to happen.

Hope this helps.

God, I'm getting all hot and bothered just writing this...

[Goofy]

games help bring fun in there too...like Monopoly when you land on his property you have to strip off an item of clothing (or better let him take it off) and of course he does the same when he lands on your properties, dancing in front of him is good to (don't let him touch though for as long as you can),
when you both go to the store or somewhere together whisper what you're gonna do to the other when you get home the naughtier the better....anticipating those events are nice, massages and all those things are great to, food not necessarily just chocolate but grapes and strawberries or whatever you both like feed each other or be like a servant girl in Rome with a bedsheet for a toga (loose fitting of course) so that when you bend down to pour the drink he gets a look at your goodies then since he is the master and you're the servant girl (or vice versa) if he should command you to undress well then hehehe have some tiny panties (or better a thong if ya like em) underneath the toga and he's sure to take you in his arms and play master of the castle hehehe , let him pay you for the night of pleasure if you can leave the kids with the sitter have him drop you off in a revealing outfit (not in the city of course) somewhere where hardly anyone goes and then have him drive by and proposition him from the window after he rolls it down, stating your prices and the nasty deeds you'll do hehehe a blanket is in the trunk of course and let him oogle your wares and when you settle on a price do it out in the open. Don't be afraid to negotiate for the best price. Just some thoughts hehehehe pla action to like he's a cop and he pulls you over for a speeding ticket what will you do to get out of it? hmmmmm

[sweetheart]

DAMN GOOFY youve done this before havent you??????????


Steffie jo go to a bar and have him pick you up there and pick you up, Go somewhere nobody knows you and be forward with him. Tell him what you want to do and even let other people hear you tell him. Then go to a motel and do anything you have ever wanted to do. Him too. Do it like this is someone you may never see again and let all your fantacies come out. Have fun.

[steffie jo]

oh you guys are so much fun...i tried the roll playing last night and pretended that we were being video taped....it has never been so good. i love this site. you guys are all wonderful and goofy i loved your ideas and i also got alittle excited just reading everyones posts

Originally Posted by Goofy

games help bring fun in there too...like Monopoly when you land on his property you have to strip off an item of clothing (or better let him take it off) and of course he does the same when he lands on your properties, dancing in front of him is good to (don't let him touch though for as long as you can),
when you both go to the store or somewhere together whisper what you're gonna do to the other when you get home the naughtier the better....anticipating those events are nice, massages and all those things are great to, food not necessarily just chocolate but grapes and strawberries or whatever you both like feed each other or be like a servant girl in Rome with a bedsheet for a toga (loose fitting of course) so that when you bend down to pour the drink he gets a look at your goodies then since he is the master and you're the servant girl (or vice versa) if he should command you to undress well then hehehe have some tiny panties (or better a thong if ya like em) underneath the toga and he's sure to take you in his arms and play master of the castle hehehe , let him pay you for the night of pleasure if you can leave the kids with the sitter have him drop you off in a revealing outfit (not in the city of course) somewhere where hardly anyone goes and then have him drive by and proposition him from the window after he rolls it down, stating your prices and the nasty deeds you'll do hehehe a blanket is in the trunk of course and let him oogle your wares and when you settle on a price do it out in the open. Don't be afraid to negotiate for the best price. Just some thoughts hehehehe pla action to like he's a cop and he pulls you over for a speeding ticket what will you do to get out of it? hmmmmm

[Goofy]

I'm glad it worked Steffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffie hehehe would you do the tape thing for real? It would be better I think than renting a porn movie. Your own porn movie starring just you two. More intimate. Some women don't like to have themselves videotaped because they think they won't look good but I believe that if you just go with the action and get caught up in the moment you'll forget all about the tape recording and just let your naturalness out (plus your wild side hehehe) and you'll enjoy it. It's said everyone has fantasies you should hear his and tell him yours and agree to do some of both persons as long as it's comfortable. Ya know like tying up or such if you're not comfortable with say a threesome or something then skip that one and go to his next one (hehehe being a guy I know that's at the top of every guys list). Or just take charge when he comes home from work and walks in the door (kids are at Grammys of course hehe) just rip his clothes off and do him right there hot n heavy inside the front door. Make sure he knows you're the boss! Don't take no for an answer....iffn ya have to (which I doubt) help him to get it up by any means possible. Take him by total surprise even dress the part He'll love it and you will to. Good luck