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 it's nice when people can prove by example that they met their husband/wife online.. it's really comforting and brings great hope. Too many people judge for the fact that you've never met them.. and it's like yeah not yet but doesn't mean I won't! You can so fall in love with somebody that you've met online without even meeting them in person.. it's just so wonderful..
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02-05-2005, 03:14 AM
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well i'm in my second online relationship i have talked to this guy for almost 2 years and me and him got super close we know each other inside out well christmas morning he called me and he told me how he really felt about me and about 3 weeks ago he asked me to marry him. hes going to be coming here this summer to spend the whole summer with me wooo hoo can't wait but lately hes been acting so weird when we talk on messager. he calls me everyday before i go to work and we talk every night on messager. hes been asking me to move to alaska thats where hes from and i don't know if i should yet. i really want to be with him but i'm kinda scared because its a big move for me. what should i do about that
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02-05-2005, 03:16 AM
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02-05-2005, 03:32 AM
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okay well I don't have any doubts that the meeting will be great because I just met my love in person and such and we had a great time and had lots of fun. I think that you should just wait and meet him in person and see how you feel after that
trust me you will know from the moment you see him in person if it's meant to be. You will also know if you want to go move there with him after spending a few days with him I'm sure things will work out fine and I hope they do! Just follow your heart it will let you know what the right thing is to do!
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02-05-2005, 03:39 AM
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the thing i'm scared of is getting hurt like my last bf did. my ex lived in edmonton and we were surpose to get married 2 years ago and 2 weeks before the wedding my grandpa passed away and hudson walked out of my life i don't know what happened or anything and i'm afraid if do move there my bf would do the same thing i don't want to get stuck some where i don't know. i love my bf a lot i haven't been this happy for a long time and when we talk on the phone its amazing this feeling, you should know that feeling,
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02-05-2005, 03:42 AM
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Yes I do know that feeling that you talk about. I also know the feeling of being hurt and being scared that it's going to be another one that goes bad.. I've had a few online relationships.. and yes they can be scary I've only met 2 of them though out of 4, I'm on my 4th and hopefully last one! That's a pic of us in my sig
hehe I love hiim so much but you just have to have faith.. what you could do is expect the worse to happen but also not think about it too much and just meet him and see how it goes this summer. See how you feel there and make sure that he is honest with you and you know that he is. If every part of you feels like this is right and that it's right in the summer then go for it you have a long time to figure out if you want to move there. If you really don't want to then maybe you guys can compromise and both of you can move to a new place? somewhere in the middle?
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