The Amorous Adventures of Marky and the Pea

[sweetpea0257]

Originally Posted by sweetmelissa26

sweetpea its not like that i mean i'm going to step back and not running to people for help and i have been thinking a lot about leaving the roo, just for a little while that is and what i mean stepping back is so you and marky can have your time you need i didn't mean how it came out when i wrote it i'm sorry if it did i'm really happy for you and marky believe me on that and i know you guys need time and i know its a rocky ride getting to know a different person isn't easy i'm kinda going through that right now tring to get things together to move in with this one guy Scared to death lmao just kidding just nervous well take care bye

Got your PM Sweetie!!! We can talk tonight if it doesn't interfere with the time spent with Marky's kids!!! Love ya bunches!!! Big hugs!!! deb

[Marky_D_Sahdd]

Originally Posted by AngelOfWater

Okay Marky was this directed to me? I did not take advantage of your time, you didn't have to talk to me, you said so yourself you CHOSE to and now what you said here is very hurtful to me because you are the one that wanted to stay and talk to me that one night because I was having a hard time.. yeah I am grateful you did even if I was cruel, but I had my reasons for being that way and I thought you understood that. Now you are going and commenting like that and I feel it is completely directed at me and a couple other people you mentioned in our conversation that you said you are always there for.. that's not fair, it really isn't and I'm honestly sick of it.. yes I'm hurt and so is someone else, I'm sure you know who I'm talking about. With things said like that.. should I even bother trying to talk to you when I'm upset and need somebody to talk to about my problems? Should I just keep them too myself. I'm sorry if I upset the Pea with making you tired.. it won't happen again, I can promise you that. I know where you stand now I'm sorry I even bothered!

???
OK, relly tired and probably feverish today, so maybe I'm not understanding things so well. Forgive me in advance if I mis-step here.
You're angry with me because I talked to you? You're angry that, when I could have chosen to go to bed, or spend time with my girl, or just relaxed and went Rooing, I talked to you instead?
You're angry that your friendship obviously means that much to me?
Miss the point, much?
THAT is completely unfair.
Darn it all, folks, I didn't have to do a thing. I could understand you being upset if I hadn't, even though I had a LOT of reasons not to. But to be angry because, within all of those choices, I chose to spend some time with you?? I just don't get it.
Apparently, nothing I do, my time, my life, means anything to you. None of it is enough.
Sorry, Kenya, but that strikes me as just a bit selfish.
But you are not the only one, or I never would have put this up. There are others who feel that Sweetpea and I owe them a block of time every day, or we are not friends. On of the reasons for this thread was that it gave us a place to communicate with a lot of people in just a bit of time, a win-win situation for anyone who wants the latest details, and we get time to do stuff to write about. And if anybody comes to us with a problem or a bad day even, I have never known myself or Debbie to be unavailable, and I know quite a few Roo members who have done the same for us.
Dunno what to say here, Angel.
You're angry if I don't talk to you. You're angry if I do.
Withouth getting all Kintergarden Playground, here, I think YOU are the one being unfair.

[purpleroscoedog]

Originally Posted by sassypants

\QUOTE\ I really wish people would stop blaming God for two people committing adultery. You are making up your own rules and claiming that God brought them together. No way. Adultery is a sin whether you are being abused or not. She's married to another.\QUOTE\

I found this tonight in my rep points...unsigned naturally.

I apprieciate that even tho you have chosen to *judge* me for my comments,you didn't red rep me.TY....
I am pretty sure I know who wrote this.......and all I can say is,

*Judge Not,lest thee be Judged!*

If these two people find happiness,yes I beleive God would be happy for them.In YOUR learnings,have you not come to see that all He wants for us is our love and for us to be happy.Try to be happy for them and to NOT take away from theirs.

That was in your rep points? How much room is in one of those things anyway. Can you just write as much as you want or does it stop after awhile. I never have that much to say in rep points.....just a word or two and then PRD .......I didn't realize you could write a book in there....LOL

[dragonprincess]

ookay... i'm guessing it's MY turn to step in here, considering my other two bitches have lmao... *only kidding, i luv you mom and sis!!!* okay anyways... first off, i'm gonna put everyone in a seperate corner... and CALMLY attempt to explain some stuff here... first of all... marky, it's not what you said, it's HOW you said it... if i need to pull out records i will... but the fact you're accusing a lot of people here that they're taking advantage of you and you're time, kinda hurts... forget everyone else for a sec... i know that you need you're time, and ya know what, that's fine by me... but i PMd you about this early, so maybe i need to write it here for you to see it... but ya know what, i feel like i lost one of my best friends... and NO it's not a guilt trip because things happen for a reason, ALWAYS... and ya know it's cool, i'm happy that you've got the love of you're life and all... but marky, i DON'T ask for that much of your're time, in fact, i've been giving you a LOT of space... but i do feel hurt when my PMs and messages go unanswered, it's been what, a week and some odd days, and i haven't heard from you... the last time i remember actually "talking" to you was a little over two weeks ago before i went down to O.C. for the performance i had to do... but what really hurts me more than anything is how you said what you did... yeah, you're taking time away from being with pea in order to be talking with us, and ya know what, we DO appreciate it, but marky it's how you're spinning it... don't you think that WE'RE feeling guilty??? i know i personally have been feeling so damn guilty about it, and hell i hardly ever talk to you anymore... i mean... marky you and i used to be really close friends and i stood behind you 100%, and i'm happy now that you've got a girl/woman/lover w/e to do it now, but it also makes me feel like i can't come to you for help anymore like i used to, you told kenya, that you'd always be there for us, and don't take this the wrong way, but you haven't been *again i'm NOT trying to make anyone feel guilty here that's not my goal*... but like i said things happen for a reason, if it takes the some of the pressure off ya, then i'm more than happy... but marky, i think YOU need to be fair here too... you gotta see where WE'RE coming from before you call us selfish... this was not meant in anyway to hurt you guys or make you feel guilty so don't... thanks again for all your help in the past marky, i really do appreciate it, and i'm sure everyone here does... so if space is what you want and need *as everyone deserves a break once in a while* i'm not gonna stand in your way... thanks again for everything

~nicole~

[Patrish]

Originally Posted by Marky_D_Sahdd

Here is the present I had waiting for me at the airport in San Diego!! She had to get my lips away from her long enough to take the shot!! LOL!


INTRODUCING.....
Marky and the Pea!

Very nice picture!!
So glad to see you!!!

[sweetmelissa26]

ok sorry for doing this i got a good rep point from someone here and i would like to know who sent it to me please who ever pm me hugs

[talk2me452002]

if i may say something here on behalf of all the friends of mark and pea..and for those who have had a close friendship with mark......i know those of you who have had a close net relationship with mark,have looked to him for wisdom,streanth,spirital quidence,are just someone to talk to on a 1on 1 basis,feel left out of his new feelings..when before he was sharing with you alot of experinces,future dreams,are just having someone to tell some of his wacky jokes too.....

and mark..you have alot of real friends here who feel like they have been set aside cause you have chosen to do all these things with someone other than them..

i understand what is happening,but i cant tell you how to change it..i know that in time you will venture out more and seek those old friends and they you..but for now this is truly a sad thing to see......this reminds me of an old friend ,that she and i was so close,talked all the time,went every where together....then she met a man,and i felt like i was betraded,left alone,and quilty all at the same time..i didnt realize at the time,that things would somewhat get back to normal,but things was said that altered the relationship forever..we still are friends but not close like we used to...i had forgotten what it was like to have a new love,new adventures,and finally putting the past behind me...and she forgot what it was like when she felt the same way when i found the man of my life and she felt the same as i did...

now we look back on it as the best thing we shared in our friendship.....loving eachother so much that we forgot to let eachother fly.....we were both selfesh,of the others feelings and forgot the one thing most important..that we cared so much for another..and threw that caring we hurt ourselves badly.......i understand that you are excited for debbie,to be with debbie,and all the good things that come from love...but your friends wont to be excited with you as well...i hope there is a way you can still share alittle more of your life with us,as you did before..so we can be just as excited as you are about your new love.....and let us share in that with you....and for the friends you have here.....its like being in the wedding party..we go threw all the moves with you..but we know we cant go on the honeymoon with you..i hope you and debbie understand what i'm trying to say..as well as all of the friends you have here in the roo......its your time to fly...but we would like to be along for the ride as well.......hope this makes some sence..hugs and much love to you and debbie..and to all your friends in the roo as well

[talk2me452002]

Originally Posted by sweetmelissa26

ok sorry for doing this i got a good rep point from someone here and i would like to know who sent it to me please who ever pm me hugs

well i tried ..but the damn spreader wont let me..does that count!..huggs mell..lmao...still trying.!

[sassypants]

Hey you two....turn off the damn PC and get to some serious *getting to know each other* (lol)

Everyone will still be here when you come back!

(I read down as far as my stomach would let me....Please Marky and Deb...don't let the ROO_Drama get to you.)

This is a happy time for you.I love you two (and the kids)
and want you to relax and stop worrying about everyone here.

And people...for goodness sakes..give them a break! It is a huge adjustment to start life over with someone new.There will be bumps and tumbles,but it doesn't have to come from HERE!

GOD BLESS (and yes I will repeat God's name here over and over...He loves you and is always watching over you in all you do.)

[muchtrouble10]

Originally Posted by talk2me452002

if i may say something here on behalf of all the friends of mark and pea..and for those who have had a close friendship with mark......i know those of you who have had a close net relationship with mark,have looked to him for wisdom,streanth,spirital quidence,are just someone to talk to on a 1on 1 basis,feel left out of his new feelings..when before he was sharing with you alot of experinces,future dreams,are just having someone to tell some of his wacky jokes too.....

and mark..you have alot of real friends here who feel like they have been set aside cause you have chosen to do all these things with someone other than them..

i understand what is happening,but i cant tell you how to change it..i know that in time you will venture out more and seek those old friends and they you..but for now this is truly a sad thing to see......this reminds me of an old friend ,that she and i was so close,talked all the time,went every where together....then she met a man,and i felt like i was betraded,left alone,and quilty all at the same time..i didnt realize at the time,that things would somewhat get back to normal,but things was said that altered the relationship forever..we still are friends but not close like we used to...i had forgotten what it was like to have a new love,new adventures,and finally putting the past behind me...and she forgot what it was like when she felt the same way when i found the man of my life and she felt the same as i did...

now we look back on it as the best thing we shared in our friendship.....loving eachother so much that we forgot to let eachother fly.....we were both selfesh,of the others feelings and forgot the one thing most important..that we cared so much for another..and threw that caring we hurt ourselves badly.......i understand that you are excited for debbie,to be with debbie,and all the good things that come from love...but your friends wont to be excited with you as well...i hope there is a way you can still share alittle more of your life with us,as you did before..so we can be just as excited as you are about your new love.....and let us share in that with you....and for the friends you have here.....its like being in the wedding party..we go threw all the moves with you..but we know we cant go on the honeymoon with you..i hope you and debbie understand what i'm trying to say..as well as all of the friends you have here in the roo......its your time to fly...but we would like to be along for the ride as well.......hope this makes some sence..hugs and much love to you and debbie..and to all your friends in the roo as well

AMEN! Carole, you have a beautiful way of putting feelings into words! I think we need to appoint you as "OFFICIAL ROO INTERPRETER".

Marky and Sweetpea: Go ahead...have the time of your lives...but don't enjoy yourselves so much you cut of the rest of us.

Everyone: I wish you peace and love!