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Laila, You are one hellava lady! It took great courage to do what you just did. I admire you for it! Thank you soooooooo very much for the love & support that you have shown Marky & I!!! This is what this thread is all about!!! NEW LOVE, NEW PEACE, NEW FRIENDSHIP & NEW HARMONY! You shared your story at the right time & for this I thank you!!! Hugs to you!!!


My dear sweetpea I know what your going threw I walked away from it all and never looked back I was judge something aweful for my actions & almost lost my life to be free ... I just want you to know I am here for you my friend And your right new Harmony something I've never knew until now Thank you for letting me share this on your thread I love you And I'm praying for you both and I hope you feel better soon with that knee & back so you can get back to have even more fun lol Hugs Laila


P.S I know what you mean about feeling like teenager again!!!
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My dear sweetpea I know what your going threw I walked away from it all and never looked back I was judge something aweful for my actions & almost lost my life to be free ... I just want you to know I am here for you my friend And your right new Harmony something I've never knew until now Thank you for letting me share this on your thread I love you And I'm praying for you both and I hope you feel better soon with that knee & back so you can get back to have even more fun lol Hugs Laila


P.S I know what you mean about feeling like teenager again!!!


Thanks again for the lift Kiddo!!! I'd like to talk one on one to you sometime!!! I'll PM you with my info either later tonight or sometime tomorrow! We are in the process now of him deciding on taking me to the ER when he gets home tonight! I hope not!!! Yuck!!! Hugs to you!!!
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Dear Marky & sweetpea, I know this thread is about you guys and your time together, but I like to share my story with you and my beautiful Roo family and I hope this will help someone out thire... No one here knows much about me so I think its about time every one knows what I've been threw my self it all started when I was 14 yrs old I met a middle easten man who told me he was 18yrs old yeah I know that he was still to old for me even at that age


but I truely believe everything happens for a reason anyways mom & dad let me date him & when I turned 15yrs old he raped me toke my innocents away. Now I am with child if you know what I mean . how was I going tell mom this to make a long story short once they find out I was Pregnant which I never told them the whole story & they still don't know to this day what really happen to me. mom & dad said I had to make it right and we would have to get married now heres the twised this man is a moslem I a christian not good, we got married in a christian church . now here I am a 15 yr old girl married & pregnant to a moslem man he was 8 yrs older then me so that means when i met him he was really 22 yr's old I was 14yr's old any ways for the next 26 yr's of my life would be a night mare a living "HELL" he made me dye my hair black I had no freedom in my own country something men & women dead for so I could be free he toke it away I was beat so much and told I was nothing until I believed it but after 911 I said enough is a enough already so by the grace of God I left him in 2002 I filed for divorce He said no one would ever love me or care about me like he ever did... He tryed to kill me many times but God was always watching out for me I've been divorce 2 yr's now and as you can see in my sig pic I am the blonde God made me to be & I have a good old American boy who Loves the hell out of me & Ive never been happer I am 44 yrs old now to many yr's I walked in fear, Too many years wasted being unhappy .... so when someone stands in judgment of another I said come on and just walk a mile in my shoes then judge me after that ... life is too short & I am so happy that you two found each other better late then never. and thank you guys for letting me pour my heart out to you all... life does work's its self out


And I like to thank everyone here at the Roo for being so kind to me and showing me much Love God Bless us all...Big hugs Laila
Laila, ANY time I start a thread in this or the Society sections, it is expressly for people to communicate. Everybody is welcome (it is, after all, a public board,) and I am always interested in anything they have to say.
It hurts me to know the kinds of things you have had to live through. How horrible! I can only pray that God has sent someone into your life to help you share your burdens and bring you joy. Thank you for trusting us enough to share it with us. I hope that has brought you some relief as well.
Looking forward to hearing about your exciting future as well!
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Dear Marky & sweetpea, I know this thread is about you guys and your time together, but I like to share my story with you and my beautiful Roo family and I hope this will help someone out thire... No one here knows much about me so I think its about time every one knows what I've been threw my self it all started when I was 14 yrs old I met a middle easten man who told me he was 18yrs old yeah I know that he was still to old for me even at that age


but I truely believe everything happens for a reason anyways mom & dad let me date him & when I turned 15yrs old he raped me toke my innocents away. Now I am with child if you know what I mean . how was I going tell mom this to make a long story short once they find out I was Pregnant which I never told them the whole story & they still don't know to this day what really happen to me. mom & dad said I had to make it right and we would have to get married now heres the twised this man is a moslem I a christian not good, we got married in a christian church . now here I am a 15 yr old girl married & pregnant to a moslem man he was 8 yrs older then me so that means when i met him he was really 22 yr's old I was 14yr's old any ways for the next 26 yr's of my life would be a night mare a living "HELL" he made me dye my hair black I had no freedom in my own country something men & women dead for so I could be free he toke it away I was beat so much and told I was nothing until I believed it but after 911 I said enough is a enough already so by the grace of God I left him in 2002 I filed for divorce He said no one would ever love me or care about me like he ever did... He tryed to kill me many times but God was always watching out for me I've been divorce 2 yr's now and as you can see in my sig pic I am the blonde God made me to be & I have a good old American boy who Loves the hell out of me & Ive never been happer I am 44 yrs old now to many yr's I walked in fear, Too many years wasted being unhappy .... so when someone stands in judgment of another I said come on and just walk a mile in my shoes then judge me after that ... life is too short & I am so happy that you two found each other better late then never. and thank you guys for letting me pour my heart out to you all... life does work's its self out


And I like to thank everyone here at the Roo for being so kind to me and showing me much Love God Bless us all...Big hugs Laila
HEY LAILA,JUST WANTED TO SAY THANK YOU FOR SHARING A DARK PEACE OF YOUR LIFE WITH US..I KNOW HOW IT IS TO BE MISSLEAD ARE MISSTREATED,THATS WHY I'M LIKE I AM NOW(MEAN OLD SHIT)..I THINK WE ALL HAVE THINGS WE WOULD
LIKE TO KEEP HIDDIN AWAY,BUT WHAT YOU HAVE SHARED WITH US IS TRULY A WAY OF RECOVERY..ALTHO ALOT OF US HAVE SEEN THE DARKER SIDE AS YOU,THERE MAY BE SOME,ARE MABE JUST ONE THAT HASENT..AND I HOPE THEY NEVER WILL..BUT THREW TESTAMONY,MABE WE CAN SAVE THEM FROM GOING THREW THE SAME AS WE DID.ARE SEEING THE SIGNS BEFORE ITS GET TO FAR...I'M A FIRM BELIVER THAT BEING INFORMED IS THE ONLY WAY TO STAY AWARE OF YOUR SUROUNDINGS,AND IN TOUCH WITH LIFE (SAD TO SAY)....THIS WORLD CAN BE A BEAUTIFULL PLACE..BUT IT CAN BE DEADLY AS WELL....SO AGAIN THANK YOU FOR OPENING UP AND LETTEING US..THE ROO FAMILY IN.....HUGS AND MUCH LOVE
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HEY LAILA,JUST WANTED TO SAY THANK YOU FOR SHARING A DARK PEACE OF YOUR LIFE WITH US..I KNOW HOW IT IS TO BE MISSLEAD ARE MISSTREATED,THATS WHY I'M LIKE I AM NOW(MEAN OLD SHIT)..I THINK WE ALL HAVE THINGS WE WOULD
LIKE TO KEEP HIDDIN AWAY,BUT WHAT YOU HAVE SHARED WITH US IS TRULY A WAY OF RECOVERY..ALTHO ALOT OF US HAVE SEEN THE DARKER SIDE AS YOU,THERE MAY BE SOME,ARE MABE JUST ONE THAT HASENT..AND I HOPE THEY NEVER WILL..BUT THREW TESTAMONY,MABE WE CAN SAVE THEM FROM GOING THREW THE SAME AS WE DID.ARE SEEING THE SIGNS BEFORE ITS GET TO FAR...I'M A FIRM BELIVER THAT BEING INFORMED IS THE ONLY WAY TO STAY AWARE OF YOUR SUROUNDINGS,AND IN TOUCH WITH LIFE (SAD TO SAY)....THIS WORLD CAN BE A BEAUTIFULL PLACE..BUT IT CAN BE DEADLY AS WELL....SO AGAIN THANK YOU FOR OPENING UP AND LETTEING US..THE ROO FAMILY IN.....HUGS AND MUCH LOVE

Thank you so much you are so right my dear!!! I won't let this wicked world of people make me mean after all i went threw I still have a big heart and it's full of "LOVE" and it may take me alife time to heal from all the abuse and brain washing this man did to me but I am Free and my freedom is worth it all how sweet it is!!! God Bless you & much Love Laila
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Laila, ANY time I start a thread in this or the Society sections, it is expressly for people to communicate. Everybody is welcome (it is, after all, a public board,) and I am always interested in anything they have to say.
It hurts me to know the kinds of things you have had to live through. How horrible! I can only pray that God has sent someone into your life to help you share your burdens and bring you joy. Thank you for trusting us enough to share it with us. I hope that has brought you some relief as well.
Looking forward to hearing about your exciting future as well!


Thank you marky I appreciate it alot !!! Yes I do have a dear man in my life and we are getting married this July 22 he is the perfect gentle man and treats me like a Queen & I never been this happy in my whole life . I will for ever have to watch my back and look out for my son but I'm in good hands for I am in "GOD"' Almightys Hands & " I WILL BE ALRIGHT" Big hugs to you and yours





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We had a great weekend!!! It was super busy, but we were together & that's what counts!!!
Friday was a very long day, as Marky didn't get home til nearly 8:00pm. We had a nice dinner & then Time Warped to "Rocky Horror." We had an early night, as he had an "In Service"all day on Saturday. Marky picked up William & Sarah on his way home. They then stopped to get me. We went to the Game & Comic Book store here, as Saturday was free comic book day!!! Woo Hoo for us!!! We then went to Sears, as I had a few things to pick up. We then stopped at 7-11 for out tea & took the kids home. It was a great, but quick unplanned visit. Marky & I then headed to Mexicali for a walk across the border. Damn toothache & no Dentists open!
We walked about 4 blocks in & then came back over to the Cali. side. Went to Jack in the Box for a quick dinner. Came home for another early night. We had a real good evening learning more about each other.
Sunday morning we got up & went to church. It was nice. They honored Mother's & being that I have 4 Step-kids, I received a flower. We came home & he called Cindy to see if she was up to visitors & she was!!! Yea!!! We are going to San Diego! I called my Dad. Rough call for me. Alot of tears! Left a message with my Mom. Still no response. I then called Donnaslaw to see how she was doing. She was not up for visitors as of yet, but we will be waiting for the time to be right to go see her.
We stopped at a roadside stand & I bought 6 toe rings (way cool!) & Marky a new pair of sunglasses. We then headed into San Diego to see our Cindy!!! I feel like I have known her forever & yesterday was the first time we met. I love her as much as Marky does. She is a great & a very brave lady!!! We have alot in common. We talked & Marky just sat there smiling & listening!!! It was a nice visit. We tried to make plans for the Star Trek convention in Aug, but it hits the same weekend as the RooUnion!!! We took a bunch of pics, which Marky will try to get on here as soon as possible. We hit a Denny's on the way home & finally got home & in bed around 12:30am.
Got Marky out the door this morning & I am now on my way to the Dentist to have this stupid tooth pulled. Tonight is going to be a kick back & take it easy night. Hopefully some Roo time for the both of us, but that remains to be seen!!!
I will continue this later, as I need to get to the Dentist now!!! Hugs to all!!!
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