The Amorous Adventures of Marky and the Pea

[sweetpea0257]

Originally Posted by Marky_D_Sahdd

Here's what Debbie meant:
Last night, we had out first "Fallout" just before bedtime.
She had been extremely hurt by the comments of a fellow Roobie, and did not trust me enough yet to know that I would put her first. She is just a little bit insecure about the number of ladies I know and converse with. To date, she has attacked the problem by getting to know the ladies, and talking to them about everything, usually ending up being better friends with them than I ever was. That makes me EXTREMELY happy.
But this one, yesterday, she couldn't deal with. She was frustrated, hurt and angry, and I got caught in the storm.
We worked it out. This morning was a lot of prayer and devotion. Things are better now.
I am again trying to do fence mending, but have made it known that people who are not interested in helping me mend this fence will end up on the other side of it when I am done.
Wishing you all love and happiness this morning. May God bless your every move today.
(Love you, Sweetpea!)

Well now that I have finished crying yet again, I can respond to this...

I have never laughed & cried more since I have been with you Marky_D-Sahdd. You have a way of drawing me out of myself. Yes I was extremely hurt by this person, because I have tried to get to know them & they aren't interested. That is fine by me because it means that I can focus on other things & other people who do care & are interested in building friendships with me to better link to you!
I only have a problem with some of the ladies. I love quite a few of them & as you said, we are on the way to becoming fast friends.
I have my share of guys that I talk to also & I do try to be up front & honest with you about this.
I am just glad that we can communicate in whatever mode is necessary for the situation.
I pray daily that things will continue to work out for us & I think that last night was a big turning point in our relationship. I do not feel that you overstepped your bounds, as you were trying to defend & to reassure me at the same time. For this I love you even more, if that is possible, with the amount of love that I feel for you now.
We need to keep finding me, so that I won't lose myself again. This needs to occur so that we can take that NEXT BIG STEP in our relationship. The next step cannot happen on a full time basis until then & we both know it. I love what we have & want it to grow as we do. I look forward to the time when I can be yours legally, not just in my heart as I am now. I LOVE YOU MARKY WITH ALL OF MY HEART & SOUL & ALL OF MY VERY BEING!!! Thank you Honey for what you have done for me here!!!

[sweetpea0257]

Well last night we had imposters for kids. Marky went to pick them up & someone had substituted them for sleepy little munchkins. They got here & they were tired & cranky. That changed once we ate pizza & watched "Home on the Range." After the movie, we walked about 5 blocks to Foster's for ice cream! Yum!!! We came back & Marky had to take them home, as the Girls had not had their baths. Marky then came home & we did a quick trip around the Roo to see if we could add to our prayer list. We then went to bed & to sleep!!! Wow a luxury to be asleep before Midnight! I was up at 5:00am to iron Marky a shirt & to pack his lunch!!! We had morning devotionals & a nice send off for Marky's FRIDAY!!! Tonight we will have an easy evening, as we will have the 2 youngest tomorrow by 10:00am. I believe a trip to Yuma is in the works!!! Yea!!! Blizzards & Books for all!!! Hot Dogs at Sam's Club too!!! What a great day it looks to be!!! Any day with Marky & the Kids always is!!! Love you Marky! Hope you are having a great day! See you tonight!!!

[sweetpea0257]

Last weekend while visiting Cindy!!!

[Angie81]

Hey sweetpea, what part do you all exactly live in because a lot of my family lives in Somerton, San Luis and San Luis Mexico. Hope both of you the best.

[sweetpea0257]

Originally Posted by Angie81

Hey sweetpea, what part do you all exactly live in because a lot of my family lives in Somerton, San Luis and San Luis Mexico. Hope both of you the best.

We are in the Imperial Valley Hun!!!

[Marky_D_Sahdd]

Originally Posted by sweetpea0257

We are in the Imperial Valley Hun!!!

I used to have this in my avatar line. It is right on the Mexican border, 5 Miles north of Mexicali BC, 90 miles east of San Diego, 50 miles west of Yuma AZ. and about 75 miles south of Palm Springs. Look south of the Salton Sea on a map.

[Marky_D_Sahdd]

Saturday:
Road trip to Yuma with two of my kids: Tired, cranky, just like Thursday night, only worse. Went to Barnes ands Noble, and Sarah fell asleep in a chair.
Hmmm.
Sweetpea got to see my kids at their worst...And still loved them (sort of, lol)
Filled them with junk food and sugar and sent them home, still cranky.
Life just keeps getting better.
After we got home that night, we played Ms. Pac Man, the forst time I had turned on the X box in months. We laughed and yelled and swore and had a great time.
Hope you all have a great day.

[sweetpea0257]

Sunday morning I woke up feeling absolutely awful. I could not breath for the stuffy head I had. I wanted so bad to go to church, but Marky made me stay in bed for the morning. He was such a Sweetie! He made me breakfast in bed. Eggs, sausage, toasted English Muffins & tea with honey. Yum! That made me feel alittle better. He then came & streched out beside me & we talked. How nice it was. We then got up & he went to try toget the water jugs filled. Bad idea on a hot Sunday afternoon. He came back & we left to go to Golden Corral for a late lunch, early dinner, stopping to fill the water jugs on the way. It was 4:00pm & it seems that everybody had the same idea at the same time. We wait. Finally we get a table. It is so nice cause Marky sits next to me instead of across from me. I love it. He blesses the food & we eat. We finish & head for home. He makes sure that I am comfortable & puts Firefly into the DVD player. I will be a Brown Coat yet!!! We end the evening with a few games of Ms Pacman, still laughing, swearing, yelling & having fun! We then go to bed & sleep in order to begin the week as rested as possible. It was a great weekend.

I do have to add a note about Saturday that made my heart sing. We went to Sam's Club & picked up 2 gallons of milk that come in a cardboard box. We then went & ordered our polish dogs from the snack bar. In the meantime, Sarah, Marky's youngest had found a pencil & was writing on the milk box. She wrote as follows:

I love you Dad and Debbie

I was so tickled that I wanted to cry, sing & laugh all at the same time. That made my weekend!!!

[sweetpea0257]

3 weeks ago at this time, I was on my way to Indianapolis to catch a plane to California & to my Marky!!! It seems as though I have been here forvever! I do know that it will be forever before I ever leave!!! I love you Honey!!! The adventure continues...

[Marky_D_Sahdd]

Three weeks ago, I was STILL convinced that Debbie was going to take one look at where (and HOW) I lived and start pricing bus tickets to anywhere else.
Here is a story I haven't told before:
There was a Willow tree growing up into the wall of the house we're living in. Three weeks before Sweetpea got here, I had some guys come in and cut it down. No prob. Took a few days. BUT they left the tree, cut into a thousand pieces in the front lawn, blocking the gate. They kept telling me they would be back to pick it up, but in over two weeks, nothing had happened. I tried to get the mess cleaned up (Along with tiling the bathroom and kitchen), but there was still a mess about knee high when I left for work that morning.
"AHA!," thinks I, "This will be the deal killer!"
Imagine my surprise when I bring her home that evening and...............
No tree.
They finally came THAT DAY to clean it all up!
Perfect, eh?
Love you, Sweetpea! Happy 3 week anniversary!