For me.....a relationship means EVERYTHING to me. When you truly love somebody, you don't want them to hurt you in anyway. That person has got to be with YOU and ONLY YOU!! When I say that.... I mean not cheating with other women/men. Having unconditional love for someone, means that you would move heaven and earth to be with that person. You do not disrespect each other in anyway, and that includes cheating. Yes! you can be friends with the opposite sex, like your ex for example.....but, as long as it isn't anything sexual. When you plan on making a life with that person, they have to be open, and honest with you.....just like you do. I worked hard to get where I am in my relationship, and it would just devastate me.....if my man was doing something of a sexual nature with a woman behind my back. When I love someone, I love them with all my heart and soul, and I expect to get the same amount of love, and respect back. TRUE LOVE can only be shared between two people, and I get the feeling that some people don't know what it means to have a true, caring relationship anymore. I LOVE my man with everything I have, and I wouldn't do ANYTHING to hurt him. But, I have complete and total TRUST in him, and I KNOW in my heart that he would NEVER do anything to hurt me. After all, you have to have trust in a relationship, and I don't want to ruin my chances at TRUE happiness with my man. So, I want to do right, and make the relationship even STRONGER!! I guess it's just my vulnerability taking over, and I had to get my feelings out. I would love it....if anyone could share their thoughts with me. Thanks!!