Through a rapist's eye~~~~~THIS IS WORTH THE READ

[jhorsemfus]

Tis the season....beware & be careful!

Please share this with all the women you know.


A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were

interviewed on


what they look for in a potential victim and here are some

interesting facts:


1) The first thing men look for in a potential victim is
hairstyle.


They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail

bun, braid or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed.

They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair.

Women with short hair are not common targets.




2) The second thing men look for is clothing. They

will look for women who's clothing is easy to remove

quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut

clothing.


3) They also look for women on their cell phone,

searching through their purse or doing other activities

while walking because they are off guard

and can be easily overpowered.


4) The time of day men are most likely to attack and

rape a woman is in

the early morning, between 5 and 8:30 a.m.


5) The number one place women are abducted

from/attacked at is grocery

store parking lots. Number two is office parking

lots/garages. Number three is public restrooms.


6) The thing about these men is that they are looking

to grab a woman and quickly move her to a

second location where they don't have to worry

about getting caught.



7) Only 2% said they carried weapons because rape carries a

3-5 year sentence but rape with a weapon is 15-20 years.


8) If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get

discouraged because it only takes a minute or

two for them to realize that going after

you isn't worth it because it will be time-consuming.



9) These men said they would not pick on women who

have umbrellas, or other similar objects that

can be used from a distance, in their hands.

Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get

really close to the attacker to use them as a

weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys

you're not worth it.



10) Several defense mechanisms he taught us are: If

someone is following behind you on a street

or in a garage or with you in an elevator or

stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a

question, like what time is it, or make general

small talk, I can't believe it is so cold out here,

we're in for a bad winter. Now you've seen their

face and could identify

them in a line-up, you lose appeal as a target.



11) If someone is coming toward you, hold out your

hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back!

Most of the rapists this man talked to said

they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed

that she would not be afraid to fight back.

Again, they are looking for an EASY target.



12) If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a

huge advocate of it and carries it with him

wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY

and holding it out will be a deterrent.



13) If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with

strength but you can by outsmarting them.

If you are grabbed around the waist from behind,

pinch the attacker either under the arm between

the elbow and armpit or in

the upper inner thigh -- HARD. One woman in a

class this guy taught told him she used the underarm

pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her

and was so upset she broke through the skin and

tore out muscle strands -

the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in

those places as hard as you can stand it; it hurts.



14) After the initial hit, always go for the groin.. I

know from a particularly unfortunate experience

that if you slap a guy's parts it is extremely painful.

You might think that you'll anger the guy and make

him want to hurt you more, but the thing these

rapists told our instructor is that they want

a woman who will not cause a lot of trouble.

Start causing trouble, and he's out of there.




15) When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his

first two fingers and bend them back as far

as possible with as much pressure pushing down

on them as possible.. The instructor did it to me

without using much pressure, and I ended

up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.



16) Of course the things we always hear still apply.

Always be aware of your surroundings,

take someone with you if you can and if you

see any odd behavior, don't dismiss it, go

with your instincts. You may feel a little

silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the

guy really was trouble.



PLEASE READ THEN FORWARD THIS TO EVERY
WOMAN YOU KNOW,


IT'S SIMPLE STUFF BUT IT COULD SAVE HER LIFE

[sweetheart]

Good post jhorsemfus, I hope none of my friends on the roo needs this. I am sending it to all my friends.

[IZaNaMI]

Thatnx for the info Horse I hope nobody here ever needs it though ...

[TriniGyal_1986]

Thanks horse.Ladies need more warnings like these.

1) The first thing men look for in a potential victim is
hairstyle.


They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail

bun, braid or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed.

They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair.

Women with short hair are not common targets.

Thank God I just cut my hair.

[IZaNaMI]

I have long hair ... but it's usually tied up in such a way that you need to be a rocket scientist to get hold of it!

[icu]

If rape does happen, hunt that bastard down and shoot his balls off. Rapists and child molesters are the lowest of life form there is, and the most extreme punishment isn't enough for them. I cannot vision how forced sex could be a turn on, but then again who knows what goes on in the minds of these sick people. I hope all you ladies take horse's post serious and stay safe.

[IZaNaMI]

Don't worry ICU, with the weirdo's in the world these days, you can't help but take these warning seriously!

[naughty_lil_angel]

Thanks for the info...........

[Lulu]

Wonderful post, I am going to forward it along also.

[Patrish]

Thanks, Horsey. I pray and hope I never need to remember this.