A carrot, an egg and a cup of coffee

[Aluli]

A carrot, an egg and a cup of coffee






A carrot, an egg and a cup of coffee

A carrot, an egg and a cup of coffee... You will never look at a
cup of coffee the same way again.

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and
how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going
to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and
struggling.
It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with
water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the
first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the
last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil, without
saying a word.

In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished
the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out
and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl.

Turning to her daughter, she asked, "Tell me, what do you see?"
Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied. Her mother brought her closer and asked
her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft.
The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it.
After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard boiled egg.
Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee.
The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked,

What does it mean, mother?"

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the
same adversity ... boiling water. Each reacted differently.
The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after
being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak.
The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its
liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened.
The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in
the boiling water, they had changed the water.

Which are you?" she asked her daughter.

When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you
a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?"
Think of this: Which am I?
Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do
I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?
Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat?
Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a
financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff?
Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with
a stiff spirit and hardened heart?
Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot
water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot,
it releases the fragrance and flavor.

If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get
better and change the situation around you. When the hour is the darkest and
trials are their greatest, do you elevate yourself to another level? How
do you handle adversity?
Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to
make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to
make you happy.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of
everything, they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past,
you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and
heartaches.
When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was
smiling
Live your life so at the end, where you're the one who is smiling and
everyone around you is crying.
You might want to send this message to those people who mean
something to you (I JUST DID);
to those who have touched your life in one way or another;
to those who make you smile when you really need it;
to those who make you see the brighter side of things when you
are really down;
to those whose friendship you appreciate;
to those who are so meaningful in your life.

[muchtrouble10]

That is so nice, Aluli, thank you for sharing it. I hope you don't mind, but I copied it to read when I have "one of those days".

[talk2me452002]

GREAT POST ALUI..you are so right,thank you for posting this..i'm gonna copy it and keep it....never heard put quite this way,but its great..thanks again

[baileygrrrl2003]

That was a very good story!!

[Aluli]

Thanks..glad you all enjoyed it. I liked it enough to share it with you!

[kipper]

When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond?


Dont know who this Adversity bloke is, but if he knocks at my door, he'll be told to piss off just like the jehovah's witnesses.

[Aluli]

You? Kipper.....would let it in!! Hahahaha!!

[Patrish]

Not sure which I am.

[hortysir]

vary insiteful post, Aluli.....must admit that my mind went straight in the gutter when I read the title, tho.....didn't know how those three things would be connected!!!!

[hortysir]

Originally Posted by Patrish

Not sure which I am.

I'd prob consider you an Egg, Pat!!! LYMI