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Yesterday my sister and friend Moondancer posted on a thread out of love for me and what this dreadful thing had done to me, and I'd like to return the love, care and concern for her by explaining to everyone who has asked me why the Ranch in the Vault has been destroyed.
As most of you already know, MD and Marlboro Cowboy are a Roo couple and they WERE also a couple in real life. He had promised that they would be together during his vacation from Iraq this time around, they were supposed to be spending 4 or 5 days together, but of course they didn't meet up and in the time he has been back in the United States he has not even bothered to call, write or contact her on the pc during the whole time he has been home - at least since she did not manage to get to Atlanta and that was on the 5th May. To explain the background, I had better go back to about February of this year - about the time I started joining in on the Stress test thread. I wasn't aware at first that MD and MC were a couple and MC began to talk to me via PM's, emails and stories of a very erotic kind. We talked, began to play on IM's, you know the sort of thing we all do on the Roo. Every day, he would IM me and chat for hours, telling me what he would like to do to me and so on. I don't need to go into detail, but it was very sexually explicit. Gradually I became aware that he and MD were actually a real couple, but he assured me that it was only on the Roo, although he told me they had met and spent time together briefly. While we were all playing on the bus, MD and I began to talk, and I realised that MD was very much in love with him and told him I would never be a party to hurting her. It was around that time that Kev and I started to hook up and then became close but Ken was still attempting to cyber and play with me, even on the morning of our bus "wedding", saying he wanted me one last time before I was "married". I knew that he was playing with some of the other girls on the Roo at the same time, and I began to chat to a couple of them too. It came about that we had all realised that he was with MD and out of respect for her and the fact they were SUPPOSED to be a couple, had one by one stopped playing with him in that way. I still counted him as a friend, but would not be part of betraying MD, by now we had become very close, like the sisters of the heart we are. Whenever he couldn't get hold of her on IM he would contact me, ask if I'd heard from her and play the dutiful loving male of the pair. I told him that he had better mend his ways and treat her properly - he swore to me that he would never hurt her. If I felt he was neglecting her or overstepping the rules, I would tell him off and for some reason he accepted this from me, although if she said the same, he would simply cut her off, say he had to go, the batteries were running down - anything to get rid of her if she asked him anything or objected to his cavalier treatment of her. He was still sending me cards and messages, saying he loved me, he needed me, he wanted me, but I ignored them for the most part. One day he had a young man die in his arms in Iraq and he was very depressed and down, so MD and I plotted a little something to cheer him up and the 3some in the hot tub on the bus was the result. From then on he tried everything he could to manipulate MD and I into another 3some, but we knew what he was up to and carried on as usual, messing around and just being ourselves. Every day he was still talking to me on IM, making sexual suggestions, which I made a joke of or skirted round. Then MD became very ill after an epidural and was taken to hospital with fluid leaking from her spine, so asked her friend to let him know from her house on IM. This lady who is a close friend of MD's contacted me in a panic - she was flustered and upset but knew that MD trusted me and wanted to ask my advice. She told me that MC had engaged her in a conversation of a sexual nature while she was telling him about MD, she had tried again and again to turn the conversation back to MD but he persisted and she asked me what she should do. I said that I felt she had to let MD know, but not immediately as she was so ill and I did not think that it would do her any good to know about this. After I had talked to her a little more and calmed her down, I IM'd MC and took him apart - he called this woman a liar, said it hadn't happened and that she was a crazy woman. When MD came home from the hospital, she said everyone was acting oddly and what was wrong - I managed to persuade her that it was because we were all worried about her and she let it go - but she KNEW that something had happened. After a couple of weeks, her friend had to tell her - she had known all along that it involved MC but didn't want to believe he would hit on her friends. She asked me why I hadn't told her and I said it wasn't my place to, but told her about the cards and mails that I was still getting from MC. We compared cards and found that he had sent the same cards, with the same want you, love you, need you crap on it to both of us. So she tackled him about this and he said he'd forgotten to change the addresses and words before sending me cards too. One card we could accept but there are several that I still have, all with the same words written to her. She eventually accepted that it COULD have been a mistake - he swore over and over that he loved her and would never hurt her again. Then the Vault opened and he took over all the pictures that MD had collected and literally rode over her and her feelings on their "dream ranch", she deferred to him but she was the one who wrote most of it and set up "his" dream. As MD and I are sisters in heart and also spirituality, he began pestering us to do the Moondance - a ritual that MD has carried out since she was a very young girl and that I share with her in spirit. This culminated in a very erotic scene being played out on the Ranch which involved not just us, but with him joining in and creating another 3some. Somewhere in his mind the idea was born - he could make this a reality instead of just the Roo. He started talking to me about me flying to see Sandra as a birthday present for her and he would pay for me to fly to America and so on. I had always planned to go but I did NOT like the idea of him paying for me to do it, but I agreed that I would like to go very much. He didn't want Sandra to know at first - it was to be a surprise for her he said. He then said that he would stop off in the UK on the way back from Iraq and we could spend the night together in a hotel before flying on to go to Sandra's home. I allowed him to carry on - I wanted to see how far he would take this, but he told Sandra we were coming, and that he would be stopping in England to pick me up - told her I was afraid of flying and travelling so far on my own! I booked and paid for my own tickets, then I invented a hospital appointment, which meant I would NOT be travelling at the same time but a week later, and then he suddenly remembered - he had an appointment with his accountant and his daughter had a recital he had "forgotten" about. He told her that he would not be able to spend the 4 or 5 days with her because his plans suddenly changed once he realised that I would NOT be sleeping with him in England and then flying on to her home, where his dream could become a reality. During this time Kev came up with his "cancer" and my plans were to include seeing him and maybe helping to heal him if I could - we also planned that he would go to see the Medicine Woman of the tribe living near MD to see if she could help - he said he was part Cherokee and would try anything that might cure his cancer. I was also in the process of setting up a business venture with my partner Frank, and I planned to trade with the indian peoples and buy supplies directly from them during my visit. Suddenly MC started to stress that he and MD were a ROO couple only - told me he could not base the rest of his life on just one night spent together, that there WAS something between them but they would have to spend time together to sort out what if any future there was for them. He said his wife needed surgery and he would not be able to do anything until it had been done - fair enough IF it was the truth, but it seems the woman he refers to constantly as his EX and who he remarried supposedly for medical insurance purposes to get her treatment is still very obviously his wife. He began to leave MD and I sitting at the computers in our respective homes and not coming back for 30 minutes or an hour - and this struck both of us as odd, until we realised he was posting the Roo and PM'ing other lady friends while we were sitting there like fools and pretending to believe the silly excuses he began to give - even though the idiot must have realised that we could see him posting and PM'ing through his profile - we saw who was pm'ing him and so on as you can if you know where to look. He became distant with her, always stressing they were a ROO couple, he was single and could do as he wished, as she could. Gone was the nightly ritual of putting Ken to bed as they had always done, and she became very distressed by his behaviour. On April 29th he contacted her to let her know that he was leaving Iraq for Germany - she heard nothing more until May 5th - the day she was supposed to meet him in Atlanta for one single day and two nights in a hotel - which he had aranged before he left Iraq. She was very hurt, for by now it was obvious that she was only a little sexual relief to while away his time before he went home to his wife. When she did not arrive at the hotel, he contacted me in the UK to see if I'd heard from her - I told him I didn't know where she was. It transpired that there had been some sort of mix-up at the airport - the plane was overbooked or something. They talked that night for 5 hours on the phone when he eventually managed to reach her - he had also arranged to meet someone else from the Roo at the hotel - another "birthday present" for MD, and the lady was disappointed not to meet MD but was on her way elsewhere, so declined his dinner invitation. He told this lady he had been in Kentucky before travelling to Atlanta - so WHY had he not contacted MD once he arrived in the States? My guess is that he probably met someone else and spent a few days with her before his next sexual encounter - with MD in a hotel in Atlanta. Why was there no contact between them from the time he spoke to her from Kuwait until he arrived in Atlanta - he could have called from an airport somewhere but claimed his plane had been cancelled and they were sent back to the secure area 51 and not allowed contact from there - he had a cellphone - so why not call? Why not call her from an airport once he hit the States - he came up with all sorts of excusues - the planes were delayed, he had 14 minutes to catch the next connection and no time to call, etc, etc, etc. From the time I arrived in the states on May 7th, I watched MD go through hell, waiting for a call that never came - he had promised he would call in a couple of days but said his wife would be up his ass all the time so it would be at least 2 or 3 days. On May 14th I rang him to let him know about Kev's supposed death, he was all apologies - there had been a fire at his house, his father-in-law was in hospital, he hadn't been able to get away - I asked him why he hadn't even bothered to send MD a card for her birthday on May 12th, he was all excuses and apologies, and all BS. He said he would be in touch soon, and the following morning rang very early, knowing we would both be asleep and left a message, again all apologies, telling us his wife had been up his ass about me calling, etc. He said he would be in touch in a couple of days, and when he rang off DID NOT say I love you to Sandra as he always used to when leaving a message - it was like he was talking to an acquaintance rather than the women he professes to love. Since then there has been nothing - no calls, no messages on the PC - just silence, even though he had said that he could spare MD an hour in Atlanta on May 31st - this involved her traveling for 7 hours to just be there for a quick fumble before he left again. I watched this wonderful lady suffer the death of her love at the same time as I did, only this one didn't pretend to die - he simply didn't have the guts or was man enough to tell her it was over, he'd found someone else, or even that he was trying again with his wife. MD and I are close - much closer than many sisters and we are truly sisters in every sense except by blood and birth. We share joys, sorrows and everyday little things, I will no longer stand by and watch Ken Prier hurting my sister, for whatever reasons of his own. This man is a player of the worst kind, (which he has always denied) and a risk to every woman who believes his lies. He does not use protection in his encounters and is a potential danger to the sexual health of every woman he beds. MD has done nothing to be treated so badly, she has given him her time, her love, her heart, sent comfort parcels out to him in Iraq, forgiven him again and again for his indiscretions and lies. Because of these lies, their dream - the Ranch and all it stood - for is razed to the ground, along with all MD's hopes and dreams, his lies and the love he swore he bore her - to her he is as dead as if he truly died in the Ranch house they shared, the plans he made with her for the future that was never to be. |
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My God...I am SO SORRY this is happening to the both of you...makes me so sad...how can people be so cruel and uncaring to others? Am I just that naive??? I know you ladies don't know me very well, but if you ever need another friend, I'm here for both of you. I love you...Dawn
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Thanks Dawn - I agree that it's ironic that we two who are so close would both be conned so thoroughly - we are simply too trusting, too naive and too loving to be anyone other than the caring people we are - and I for one won't change, just be a lot more careful. Hugs honey
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BIG HUGS back to you, Angel...I posted on the other thread, I dunno if you read it at all, but I said pretty much the same as what you just said about being caring and trusting, and that I'll never change...my hats off to you and MDancer...for being two of the strongest women I have the pleasure of knowing! I haven't seen MDancer here at all, so I'll PM her and give her BIG HUGS as well. I love you, Angel...Dawn
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