let me start by saying that ive just gotten over a very bad relationship with a girl that i thought i loved but it fell apart anyway. i have just now gotten over our 5 month relationship about 3 months later. what she did to me still hurts like hell. then i have this friend that i like alot. she and i have been "friends" that all because shes a whole lot more popular than i am and the only reason we became friends is that shes my neighbor and shes really nice and makes friend s with everyone. i like her and im not sure about her feelings towards me though. weve kissed a few times but she wants to keep it a secret. i know shes enough of my friend to not lead me on like that, but im not the type of guy that she would date. im kind of a shy person and i dont know if i should go for it or not. if she says no im not sure what ill do because im not sure if i can stand another heart break or not. and when my friends joke about us "messing" around because we live right next to each other she gets pissed about it. i mean things are really screwed up right now and im not sure what to do. ive tried telling her my feelings but every time i cant and im pretty sure she doesnt want to hear it. she also just broke up with a very bad relationship and she has a rep for having a "bouncing back" man. i know she wouldnt use me for that, but its getting to the point where i dont care if she does or not i just want to be with her. what do you guys think?